Have you ever dreamed of who you should be? Where you should be? Is there more to life? Some days I feel like I am the only one, but there is no way that is possible….my tribe has to be out there somewhere, right?!

Daily struggles keep me held back from my truest potential. I know I am destined for more. I am a driven individual that has the largest desire in me to help other become who they are capable of being. I have a vision of my blog being able to finally emanate the sunshine inside of me that is ready to shine upon everyone on in this world who needs a bit of pick me up, direction, listening ear, and soo soo much more. I would love to bring everyone on a journey of self love, self improvement, discovery of self because we have one life to live and we need to be proud of our accomplishments when the time comes to slow down.

Let’s Break it down….

No. 1: Know your life story and how you got to where you are now.

As a little girl I was always so care free…the love for life was prominent. I was the youngest between my brother and I but I was also the protector, the doer, the one to make sure the other was happy. At a young age my parents divorced, but it was the best decision that my mother could’ve made for my brother and I. I remember a few things from the days stuck in the toxic parent relationship and I know those things have made me who I am now. I am strong and independent, I know that is because I watched the most important person in my life become that strong fierce woman and it carried through to me. I have a fear of being addicted to things bad for me, I know that is from watching the biological father drink his life away. I have a desire to make certain my children live in a happy house and be raised by a team, I know that is because I never had that in my crucial years that shaped who I am. What is your life story of how you got to where you are today? I would love to hear from you!

No 2: Where are your strengths?

I am a strong, independent woman who is determined to get what she wants. I have people pleasing tendencies that I work on daily because I know that it is a good quality but some times is not a good quality for my self care. I am organized, sympathetic, driven, and LOVE to help other people in their walk of life to become who they are meant to be. I sold a home a few years ago that the attorney never thought possible because the documentation was never given to us when we purchased it. The attorney asked to hire me for my investigation skills because that determined personality of mine won that impossible battle. I could go on and on on the impossibles that i have made possible but will save it for another time. Have you thought about your strengths? It is amazing how different everyone is and I can’t wait to hear what your strengths are!

No 3: Silence plays a crucial role.

Meditation…..what a beautiful thing. I remember rolling my eyes when people would talk meditation but after experiencing it myself and finding the right meditations for my unique needs, what a life changer. 5 mins a day to start will lower the stress levels unbelievably. I never realized the racing thoughts until I focused on breath work and had to push the interruptions constantly. There are some really good thoughts in my head when I sit in silence and allow them to flow through. Where else do you think me wanting to start a blog came from? The world need to know the real me, good…bad…and otherwise. 🙂 Do you meditate or need help starting?

No 4: Meaning in life.

Where do I feel the most alive….family days, being in nature, helping someone through a really hard time or difficult decisions, the list goes on, but it all leads back to helping others and being authentic. I work in a corporate world but knowing myself now I know I would’ve been best in a Human Resource role because helping others is my passion. If I was to sit and list the people who have came to me for advice and help it would take me hours. I believe people are drawn to me because it is my purpose in life to help others become who they are meant to be. Do you have hobbies or other items that can show you what your meaning in life is? Get at me cause i would love for you to share them with me.

No 5: What are your beliefs and values?

A few basic beliefs in society: Murder is wrong, Love is good, you shouldn’t lie, and stealing is bad. My top beliefs in this head of mine are helping others is beautiful, being nice will get you farther in life than being hateful, and the little things in life mean more than the big things.

The 5 basics as far as values go: Love, Peace, Truth, Right Conduct, and Nonviolence. My top values in this one life I have are being grateful, dependability, Family, and growth in all aspects of life.

Knowing your core beliefs and values can help get you to the real you. Have you sat in silence and thought about them yet? Please give